Women lie, Men Lie. Are just don't say nothing AT ALL!!!

I can understand the whole women lie, men lie slogan. But what i don't get is how a woman can be so nieve.. I mean come on now, I figured we where raise to be Strong Black Women, but my thing is you Talk that INDEPENDENT Crap but let these dudes unwrap those undies and then they bounce on that ass or you find him cheating and want to say "I Love him to much to leave", But when your "friends" go through the same situation you want to say "i will leave his ass" Call it what it is. Be real please, or don't speak on it at all. I am a very outspoken person and i believe at times to outspoken but I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear to make your day. (sorry). Ladies don't let dudes talk you up so much that you forget yourself and get put in a situation where you have nothing. Live life knowing that you are worth more than AVERAGE and that you walk at all times with your heads up high. Being a beautiful,intelligent,confidence Black Woman is the Key to all Doors that you think are closed.

VM.

To Agree, To Disagree!

Okay i have been missing in action for awhile, and alot has happen in my life so, let me fill you in. Okay after me and the hubs said our "I dos" we got preggo a month after. So I have been knocked up for the past 9 months. Anyways during that 9 month journey I have learned so much more about my other half (good and bad) My hubs was a hot mess during this pregnancy! I mean bossy, annoying, nagging, spoiled, rotten the list can go on..... so it was alot to deal with due to the fact I was dealing with my own issues (hormones). The day I found out that I was expecting it was a big shocker due to the fact that i didn't even get married life down pack yet and now I'm about to be a mother all over again (my first child is 7) Anyway, this was a big transformation for me. but me and the hubs was thrilled. But during that process was stressful due to the fact we didn't get to cherish the wife and husband roles, our discussion was mainly focusing on when the baby arrive and money. So we had alot of disagreements and that was know fun. So long story short when Nov 17 came around baby was born (most beautiful day) nothing else mattered. It was like we looked at each other like the day we said "I DO" any who baby came, maternity came and went and i was back thinking now I can start working on how to be a better wife for my love.